I'm starting to feel "old". Not in a physical sense, but
mentally. Perhaps "old" isn't the right word, but it's just this
feeling I'm getting that I've realized I've learned a lot of "life
lessons" and that I want to pass them on to my future children.
However, I just get this sense that my words will be ignored, because
as I keep referring back to my lessons, I seem to add thoughts to them,
which will dilute the "child" voice that is heard in them, and reflect
more of an "adult" voice, if this makes any sense.
That's why they say "parents don't understand." They do, but
their message is in a vocabulary that is foreign to kids. They
might hear the words, but dont know _why_ the parent is delivering the
message, or how the parent even learned the lesson in the first
place. It's kind of analagous to how a disgruntled employee knows
how bad everyone else has it, since he/she is working with them, but
then when the employee becomes a manager, he/she has it "good" and
forgets about his former coworkers.
I'm only 27 (soon to be 28) but I can sense this change..... what
people should do is write down their thoughts while they are still in
their teens and early twenties, so that the advice doesn't become
diluted and sound so elderly to a chid.
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